Be Your Own Person
Lailun Islam Labonno
There was a time in our life when some things did not make sense to us like this common verse we hear every now and then - everyone is different. The sad thing is as we grow up it takes time to realize the meanings behind the phrases and simple words that can mean so much more than we had ever known.
Growing up is a scary, weird, interesting, beautiful also never ending kind of process. The main thing starts from teenage period. But, the thing is you really start to grow up when you start to realize who you are, who you want to be, where you want to see yourself years from now. You start to notice things deeply when you start to know yourself more accurately.
If anyone has not told you this yet, you should know that life is not fair. You will stumble and fall so many countless times before you reach your desired destination that you cannot imagine. Every hardship you are going to face, you are going to end up with a new scar. Just keep one thing on your mind that you should learn to depend on yourself, create your own personality and put your dreams first on your priority list.
Life has a funny way of turning around with twists and turns. You are probably going to go through things like having fake friends, unnecessary dramas, broken hearts, people treating you wrong, etc. If you are broken, damaged, torn apart and have scars, you should know that thats how people become who they are. Going through those does not mean you should become dark and twisted. Hold your head high and keep your guard up. Use the hardships to learn lessons and build a strong personality. Be an example of beautiful mind and soul, not someone who does not know how to deal with hardships and ends up messing up their lives.
Life is so much more beautiful when you create your own version of sights of seeing things positively. Work hard, dream big and be your own person. Be real and be good.
